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Parenting Orders

A Parenting Order is where the Family Court makes a decision about the care of children, and when time is spent with each parent. It applies when separated parents cannot agree themselves, or when a parenting agreement whether made in formal mediation or otherwise needs to become legally enforceable.

Before you apply

Most cases require two mandatory steps as set out in law: taking part in Family Dispute Resolution, where a qualified mediator helps you try to reach agreement, and completing a Parenting Through Separation course that explains the Court process and focuses on your child’s needs. You need to include proof of these steps with your application, for example an FDR form or a course certificate. If the case is urgent, if there are safety concerns, or if one parent has already applied, the Court may allow a without notice (urgent) application and waive these requirements.

What a Parenting Order can include

  • Day to day care, where the child lives and how daily routines are managed.
  • Contact arrangements in cases where there is no shared care and times and places.
  • Supervision in cases where there are safey issues.
  • Safety conditions if safety issues have been raised.
  • Holiday and special occasion plans, plus clear drop off and pick up details.

Both biological parents are guardians of children, which means making important decisions for children decisions together.

If a Parenting Order already exists

If a Parenting Order was made in the last two years, you generally cannot apply for another one unless both parents agree, or there has been a material change in circumstances.

When Parenting Orders are not followed

The Court expects compliance. If an order is broken, there are enforcement options available, including warrants or adjustments to arrangements.

How we help

We prepare and file your application, make sure the paperwork is complete, and represent you in dispute resolution (during the Court process) and in Court, with notice (non-urgent applications) or without notice (urgent appications). We also draft clear and workable orders, help respond if the other parent has already applied, and apply to vary or enforce existing orders when things are no longer working.

Some of our lawyers also accept assignments from the Ministry of Justice to represent children. Our team is fully equipped to advise you. Talk to a family lawyer